Wednesday, 12 February 2014

A simple compliment lasts for a lifetime!!

Valentine's day is upcoming and people all over the world are busy in celebrating it. Lovers to be precisely. But is the day really meant to be celebrated by lovers? If you broaden up your vision and scale up the thoughts on a higher level, the day can be celebrated with anyone and for anyone who you love and care about. 

This morning my mother Whatsapped me this pretty heart-touching message -

What is love?

Love is when my mom kisses me and says, 'My child is the best of all' and dad says, 'Sorry my child! Got very late today'.

Love is when your brother says, 'You don't worry my friend! I am there for you'.

Love is when your mood is off limits and your sister says, 'Let's go walk around'.

Love is when your best friend hugs you and says, 'Oye! Where were you yaar? It wasn't fun without you''

These are all the best moments of love. Don't miss them in life. Love is not only having a girlfriend or a boyfriend. It is all about those people who are there for you..always.

Happy Valentine Month.



Complimenting is a good gesture

Isn't the message lovely and makes sense in every possible way? Why to plan everything only for your lover if you share your heart with friends and family members too!!! So this Valentine, not only to the person you go banana over, compliment those people also who are an immense and inseparable parts of your life. One person can not make your life altogether wondrous. It usually takes a bunch and the bunch does include your friends and family.


Then how to celebrate the day with them? With expensive lovely gifts, you sure can do a great impact but the most important gift I know is one thing that can work upon them, just the way you want it to be.

Just let them know how important they are for you; how grateful you are to them for their precious presence in your life; how much you love and adore them; how much you care for them.

These little tiny things matter a lot. Big gifts sure shows your kind gesture of being thoughtful but these small things works amazingly and you don't have to wait for an excuse like Valentine's day to tell them. You can say it to them anytime and they will surely feel awesomely struck by your warm move. They will keep it memorized forever. They won't be able to forget your simple yet heart warming compliments.

When I was in Class 8th, one of my favorite teachers, our Punjabi language teacher, had complimented me during a musical game. She had told me I had the sweetest voice in the class. I never knew about it and she was the first person to tell me about my own voice. I still remember her compliment and whenever I think about it, a smile stretches on my face. Though many people told me the same thing after her but the way she complimented me and on the top of that, her being the first person telling me, I always remember the compliment. I relish that moment after all these years and re-live it over and over again. It gives me happiness. I know I am being self-praising person but if one simple compliment can make your day then why not think about it (unless you go overboard with it).

After all, a simple compliment lasts for a lifetime unlike mortal gifts.

Therefore, do not limit a love-occasion only to one person. Break the inhibitions, chuck out the rules and celebrate it with everyone you love and care but make sure they share the same feelings in return as well otherwise you may get a memory that can turn your smile into a droopy one.

By the way, thank you for stopping by. You are a one such amazing beautiful reader. :)


2 comments:

  1. Compliments are awesome! I agree that we should tell our friends and family how much we love them and compliment them on the things we appreciate about them- or their special gifts. :) Thanks for sharing.

    Have a magical day!

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    1. Hey Jess! I too believe the same way. And thank you for stopping by. :)

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